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nothing gets people talking like the suggestion that child rearing is anything less than a completely fulfilling, life-enriching experience.
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Rather than concluding that children make parents either happy or miserable, Senior suggests we need to redefine happiness
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instead of thinking of it as something that can be measured by moment-to-moment joy, we should consider being happy as a past-tense condition
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Even though the day-to-day experience of raising kids can be soul-crushingly hard, Senior writes that “the very things that in the moment dampen our moods can later be sources of intense gratification and delight.”
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nothing gets people talking like the suggestion that child rearing is anything less than a completely fulfilling, life-enriching experience.
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Rather than concluding that children make parents either happy or miserable, Senior suggests we need to redefine happiness
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instead of thinking of it as something that can be measured by moment-to-moment joy, we should consider being happy as a past-tense condition
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Even though the day-to-day experience of raising kids can be soul-crushingly hard, Senior writes that “the very things that in the moment dampen our moods can later be sources of intense gratification and delight.
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